Where Everybody Knows Your Name
Tuesday, January 8th, 2008On the way to work on the bus this morning, one of the passengers was having an intense gossip with the bus driver. My immediate reaction was one of concern for the passengers’ safety, as the bus driver seemed a little too involved with the conversation. But as time passed I realised that there was no need to worry, the driver was doing his job, and doing it well
This initial consternation then gave way to interest. Isn’t it interesting how some people will share their entire lives (this particular person was talking about her current family situation) with someone as incidental as a bus driver? I’m not saying that their work goes unappreciated -I wouldn’t have a chance of getting to work without them- just that it’s unusual for the ‘average Joe’ to have long and involved chats with people they spend such little time with.
However, then I reconsidered. We all like to have somewhere where we’re recognised. Who wouldn’t like to have been one of the regulars at ‘Cheers’? Or have a local coffee shop where the barrista knows exactly what coffee you have every morning, and how you like it? We like to think that we mean something to someone outside our normal sphere of influence, to connect with someone to whom we don’t owe anything and from whom we don’t expect anything. Or maybe we just like to have a morning chat on the way to work. Who knows?
--> On the way to work on the bus this morning, one of the passengers was having an intense gossip with the bus driver. My immediate reaction was one of concern for the passengers’ safety, as the bus driver seemed a little too involved with the conversation. But as time passed I realised that there was no need to worry, the driver was doing his job, and doing it well This initial consternation then gave way to interest. Isn’t (More...)